tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8429266377364863842.post5230053325052822658..comments2023-11-05T03:48:19.156-06:00Comments on finding pam: My sister, CandyFinding Pamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07671978828279304904noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8429266377364863842.post-53507605491725345222012-09-17T06:36:34.726-05:002012-09-17T06:36:34.726-05:00I'm sorry to hear Cindy is bad again, I hope t...I'm sorry to hear Cindy is bad again, I hope things improve.<br /><br />You take good care of yourself. xAkelamaluhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11234268568845148285noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8429266377364863842.post-69750038167670641302012-09-15T22:53:58.211-05:002012-09-15T22:53:58.211-05:00Hi Pam...stopped by to send you hugs and let you k...Hi Pam...stopped by to send you hugs and let you know I'm thinking about you...Stay strong out there.....Nikki (Sarah)https://www.blogger.com/profile/13731200601840020130noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8429266377364863842.post-64088000555438050332012-09-03T22:59:10.178-05:002012-09-03T22:59:10.178-05:00Pam, I'm so sorry that you're going throug...Pam, I'm so sorry that you're going through all of this and hope Candy realizes that she needs to take responsibility for herself. I know how hard it is worrying over someone.Chickiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15953892579800213358noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8429266377364863842.post-83496609126801791852012-09-02T14:13:36.127-05:002012-09-02T14:13:36.127-05:00Oh, Candy. Again?
Do you think your family could...Oh, Candy. Again?<br /><br />Do you think your family could benefit from Nar-Anon meetings? These are for families of drug addicts wherein you can learn more about her addiction, and more about your own role in that mess. Suffice it to say, a lot of us are enablers and usually have a lot to learn.<br /><br />Just in case you may be, here is a list of Texas meeting places:<br /><br /> http://nar-anon.org/Nar-Anon/Texas.html. <br /><br />In case you aren't close, but nearer another state, they have a data base of meeting places for every state.<br /><br />Antibiotics are powerful drugs that do make you feel just about as awful as the original infection makes you feel, Pam. I hope you're better, soon.<br /><br />HugsRudeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17889298704039071473noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8429266377364863842.post-72425409656286879872012-09-02T13:16:38.768-05:002012-09-02T13:16:38.768-05:00Sandee,Praying for her and that she will own it. ...Sandee,Praying for her and that she will own it. I hope love is enough. I appreciate your wisdom. Big old Texas hugs back to you. <br /><br />Travis,the hardest part is knowing I can't make it better for her. I appreciate your support and kind words.<br /><br />DeEtta, THank you for your prayers.I know things will get better,but I have to remain positive and live in the moment.<br />I feel the love,my friend.<br /><br /><br /><br /> Finding Pamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07671978828279304904noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8429266377364863842.post-27008410749158864562012-09-02T11:11:20.261-05:002012-09-02T11:11:20.261-05:00You have been through so much lately. So sorry:( ...You have been through so much lately. So sorry:( Take care of your sweet self and keep that peace you feel now, it will help you get better. You and your sister will be in my prayers.<br />Sending lots of LOVE!!!!<br />DeEttaDeEttahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18426099684156458280noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8429266377364863842.post-66684239774576381802012-09-02T11:00:56.458-05:002012-09-02T11:00:56.458-05:00Hang in there with the health and family struggle....Hang in there with the health and family struggle. Addiction is tough. But as you know, a person can't recover until they own it and mean the ask for help. All the work has to come from the addict.<br /><br />You want to fix it but you know you can't. That's so hard on family.Travis Codyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06192526507760146748noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8429266377364863842.post-8965108363364702022012-09-02T10:38:22.145-05:002012-09-02T10:38:22.145-05:00You have your sister pegged perfectly. There is n...You have your sister pegged perfectly. There is nothing you can do but love her. The rest is up to her, and if she doesn't admit she's an addict then she will never accept all the help that is out there. Too bad.<br /><br />I hope you feel better soon honey. Big hugs. v<br />:)Sandeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06785788498697004273noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8429266377364863842.post-71999384304088192342012-09-02T10:25:54.124-05:002012-09-02T10:25:54.124-05:00Gail, I hope everything goes well with your move. ...Gail, I hope everything goes well with your move. I don't think you ever get over loosing your Mom. <br /><br />I am familiar with NAMI. I use my therapist to deal with all of my issues. It sure helps me.<br /><br />I'm sending prayers your way.<br /><br />Peace and love,<br />PamFinding Pamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07671978828279304904noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8429266377364863842.post-19892892772945563732012-09-02T10:04:14.348-05:002012-09-02T10:04:14.348-05:00Hi Pam - so sorry to hear of all the frightening d...Hi Pam - so sorry to hear of all the frightening disease activity your sister is going through and its powerful effect on you. Please take care of yourself.<br />Are you aware of a national organization called NAMI, if not pleae contact them - their services are free and they will come to your home to meet with you and provide support services as the family member of someone with mental illness. <br />Sending all good energy.<br />Love Gail<br />peace...<br /><br />p.s. lots going on here - we are in a transition, down sizing, moving, atop my Mom';s recent passing away - July 13th - :-( I miss her so very much. Gailhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11337675996256691215noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8429266377364863842.post-92157257156205327352012-09-02T09:59:28.934-05:002012-09-02T09:59:28.934-05:00Mimi, I understand completely why you cut your tie...Mimi, I understand completely why you cut your ties with your brother. Toxic relationships hurt the soul. <br /><br />Thanks for recommending that book. I ordered it for myself and one for my sister.Finding Pamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07671978828279304904noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8429266377364863842.post-613864352035246112012-09-02T05:36:21.849-05:002012-09-02T05:36:21.849-05:00I feel for you, Pam. Sorry you're sick, and go...I feel for you, Pam. Sorry you're sick, and going through this with your sister.<br />"It's the same song, but a different verse." I know what you mean here, we had the same with my brother, then had to cut ties as it was too damaging. Not ideal, not the way I want it, but the only way I could manage it.<br />(((((hugs))))Mimihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08100985140335023467noreply@blogger.com